You need to look for the verbal and non-verbal cues to know if your kid is uncomfortable with it. I feel like not changing who I am, not hiding my body or being ashamed of my body will be a good foundation and example to point my sons into this direction. I just hope my son can tell me verbally or non verbally hes uncomfortable as he gets bigger and I'll respect his comfort levels. I think your nudity will help your sons be more comfortable around women, and respectful of them. My father and I showered together until I was 7 or so, because it was just easier to do all the showering at once in the morning. I don't know if you noticed, but I always felt bad about it, so, I'm sorry. I guess because of that 'rule', 5 became a magic age for me.
Why I'm OK With My Sons Seeing Me Naked
We also shared baths with our children when younger. When I entered the onsens, I learned it was tradition to leave my clothes or yukata robe in a basket, then walk—totally naked—over to a row of showerheads that were set at a height that required me to sit on a stool it's considered bad manners to stand, lest I accidentally splash someone. They also might seem fairly oblivious to your nudity when they see you in the shower or getting dressed. Oldest Newest 24 Posts. Go into the relevant changing room male or female and remove all your clothes or your yukata.
The dreaded requirement of showering naked
Mediumship Learning Bundles Guided Meditations. We were talking about how quickly the kids are growing up and how we both wished we could hold those tiny bundles in our arms again. You can get through six a day. Or is it 'cause of your neck? I'm sure you'll make the right choice for your family.
I used to see my dad naked in the bathroom all the time too, until eventually I felt uncomfortable with it age 12? Because of social pressure to Be Cool. I already knew that outside of the house, I was supposed to wear clothes, but I also knew that TV was "just pretend. Waiting for that moment of expression of discomfort may never come. It's not a sexual encounter it's a naked human. In addition, some places might only have one onsen that alternates between male and female use for a certain number of hours each during the day. Welcome to Rage-aholics Anonymous.